Infant Loss · MIscarriage · Stillbirth

3 Observations About Infant Loss Grief

As you may know, October is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Awareness month. It’s a particular kind of grief that touches so many. According to the Pastoral Guide for Miscarriage, Stillbirth, and Newborn Loss, estimates show that one in four pregnancies end in miscarriage. Some estimates are one in three. In the US, there are over… Continue reading 3 Observations About Infant Loss Grief

Human Dignity · Infant Loss · Loss · MIscarriage · Stillbirth

When Someone You Love is Grieving Their Baby

Sometimes we just don’t know what to do anymore.  It seems as though we live in a highly sensitive age where it is near impossible to say anything without offending somebody about something.  Yet we know we need to act and we know there are people around us who are hurting and hurting deeply.  And… Continue reading When Someone You Love is Grieving Their Baby

Infant Loss · MIscarriage · Stillbirth

Why Our Babies Aren’t Angels…and Why It Matters

My baby’s not an angel.  And I’m glad for it.  Almost anyone who has ever lost a child has probably heard it or said it themselves.  In the midst of condolences or their own processing of grief, they are told that their child is now an angel.  We hear it often: You’re now a mommy to… Continue reading Why Our Babies Aren’t Angels…and Why It Matters

Birth · Infant Loss · MIscarriage · Motherhood · Stillbirth · Uncategorized

Why Am I Doing This? (Suffering for the Sake of Life)

“Why did I do this?”   She sounded so tired, so exasperated, a hint of fear in her voice as she worked her way through the contraction.  I was there supporting her as her doula as she worked to birth her second child.  It was clear she was now remembering that there was no way out but… Continue reading Why Am I Doing This? (Suffering for the Sake of Life)